Inciteful Words

Proverbs 18:21 – “Death and life are in the power of the tongue”. Don’t curse your future … speak life into it! When we put aside our biases, oppositions and differences with someone or something in order to consider the message, we have cleared our minds enough that makes room for us to realize how … Continue reading »

Year of Gratitude

I’m grateful for today, appreciative to have lived through another year. I’m glad to accomplish all I have, knowing there’s so much more that I could have did. Either way it goes I’m thankful. But if I do not make it through this day, I hope you forget how I died, but remember how I … Continue reading »

Hard To Hear vs Not Listening

Just because something is hard to hear doesn’t mean you do not need to hear it. If the person is speaking to you with sincerity, they are respectful, considerate and loving, compassionate or empathetic in their delivery, then you shouldn’t be so quick to get upset or defensive when someone is telling you something. I’ve … Continue reading »

The I-Word

Question: Is it more difficult for men to forgive women for cheating than it is for women to forgive men for cheating?     Additional Questions: If you or your loved one mistake, should that be the end of the relationship? Is there consideration for all the things he or she have got or done … Continue reading »

An Encouraging Word

An Encouraging Word | By: Tim Valentine What would you say or think about someone who encouraged their enemies, critics and opposition with a kind word? Now while you’re thinking about that question, I would like for you to consider the response you were just thinking, since that is the one that is most sincere. … Continue reading »

What Would People Say If?

What Would People Say If? | Written By: Tim Valentine   What would people say about you if you demonstrated love without condition? What would people say about you if you forgave them and those who did you wrong in some way, but you were sincere in your forgiveness because you did not hold it … Continue reading »

Death of High Expectations

Written By: Timothy A. Valentine   A heart, mind or spirit open to forgiveness, tolerance and consideration helps make love; along with a sincere service to patience, grace, humility and respect. We all experience disappointments in life, but some of the greater and hardest things in life we may need to face and accept is … Continue reading »

The Dash Between

You know it really doesn’t matter whether you agree or disagree with me or the statement that I am about to make, because there is a great equalizer that we all will face. That equalizer is death. The question that so many have not considered preparing for is not what people will say about you, … Continue reading »

Pay Attention or Someone Else Will

Pay Attention or Someone Else Will | By: Tim Valentine   I really do not know how else to say this, but this is just something on my mind that is absolutely not referring or directed towards anyone. It truly is something that’s just on my mind. So if you’re in a (romantic) relationship, whether … Continue reading »

Never Give Up

It seems like whenever I take a moment to walk everyday, I always come back with something to say. It doesn’t matter what type of day I’m having. It seems such a thought comes to mind and the need to share it. So I would like to offer this one to those of you who … Continue reading »

What You Can Do Today

When we choose not to consider, choose not to believe, choose not to acknowledge, think or assume that we might be wrong, were wrong or are wrong; we open up the possibility that we are. So I submit these question not to debate anyone, but to get you to think about what you can do … Continue reading »

I Never Knew Silence Could Be So Loud

Personally, I’ve given up trying to have meaningful conversations with any individual who can not demonstrate consideration, because it is unproductive. I’ve honestly tried and have observed the behavior, language and perceptions many exhibit towards others and issues or situations. How can you teach anyone who is not willing to first be a student? This … Continue reading »

Forgiveness: A Renewable Spirit Initiative

Forgiveness is a natural resource whose power is not being effectively utilized in our world today. We can not continue running our lives on the cheap fuel of selfishness, discontent and hatred. It’s unsustainable. Forgiveness is eco-friendly and good for your emotional environment when properly used with consideration. People can and do change. It may … Continue reading »

What About Us?

Questions of Consideration for the 2012 Republican Presidential Candidates: What About Us? A question for the 2012 Republican Presidential Candidates, but we extend the question in hopes of a response to the candidates, their staff, supporters and their party members. We ask that you refrain from comments that are off-topic or directed at ANY other … Continue reading »

Your Freedom of Choice

What if the opportunity you’ve been waiting for was to come by the hands of the one you speak, think and act unfavorably towards? What could you gain if you decided to make a change? What could you enjoy if you decided to be open to the possibility? What an influence, how significant, can you … Continue reading »